June 7, 2013 · 3:51 am
This game illustrates the story of Israel fighting against the Amalekites. When Moses raised his hands, Israel pushed back the Amalekites, but when his hands were lowered, the Amalekites pushed back the Israelites. Aaron and Hur held up Moses’ arms to ensure the Israelite victory.
- Masking tape – one roll
- Dowel rod, stick or broom handle to serve as Moses’ staff
- Chair or something to represent stone for Moses to sit on
- Use masking tape to mark one line in the center of the room and two lines on either side of the room.
Use this script or modify to suit your needs.
- “We’re going to play a game to help us remember and understand a story from the Bible.”
- “The story is about Moses and the Israelites in a war against the Amalekites.” (Have a volunteer read Exodus 17:8-16.)
- “When Moses’ hands were up, the Israelites were winning, but when he got tired and lowered his arms, the Amalekites started winning.”
- “So Aaron and Hur sat him on a stone and held up his hands until the victory was assured for Israel.”
- “So, to play this game, I need three volunteers to be Moses, Aaron and Hur.” (Select volunteers. Have “Moses” sit on the chair or other item representing the rock. Have “Aaron” and “Hur” stand by his sides.)
- “Now, I need to divide the rest of you into pairs.” (Line everyone up in a single-file line from smallest to largest. Count the number of participants. Divide this number by two and have all participants count off to that number. For example, if you have 16 participants, half of that is 8. Number off the participants 1-8. Then have the two “ones” get together and the two “twos” get together and so on. Position each pair over the line made with tape in the center of the room.)
- “This side (choose a side) represents the Israelites.”
- “This side (choose a side) represents the Amalekites.”
- “When Aaron and Hur raise Moses’ arms (Have your volunteers demonstrate.), you can push against your opponent only if you are an Israelite.”
- “When Aaron and Hur put Moses’ arms down (Have your volunteers demonstrate.), you can push against your opponent only if you are an Amalekite.”
- “If it’s not your turn to push, you can try to hold your ground, but you cannot push back.”
- “The goal is to force your opponent across the line behind him or her on their side of the room. If you do, you win!”
- “The first three to win their battle will get to replace Moses, Aaron and Hur in the next round.”
- “Any questions?” (Begin the first round. Make sure that Moses’ arms go up and down fairly quickly to give both sides a chance. After you’ve done a few rounds, debrief using the following questions.)
- Why do you think God allowed the battle to be decided by whether or not Moses’ arms were up?
- Do you think God would have allowed Israel to lose the entire battle if Moses, Aaron and Hur had been too tired to keep Moses’ arms up? Why or why not?
- How do you think the Israelites felt about Moses, Aaron and Hur after the battle?
- Why do you think Moses built an altar and called it, “The Lord is My Banner?”
- What can we learn from this story that we can apply to our own lives?
March 20, 2011 · 3:04 am
Remember the Titans deals with race relations in the 1970s in Virginia, when black students were bussed into white schools. A black coach is appointed to lead a high-school football team, and he and other members of the team struggle with the prejudice and racism that threatens to ruin their chances at a successful season.
The movie is relatively safe to show to teens and with different types of audiences. There is minimal swearing and only one inappropriate scene (where Sunshine, kisses Bertier in the locker room). Sunshine is apparently trying to be provocative. It does not appear that the character is actually homosexual, and homosexuality is not glorified. Christianity is shown in both positive and negative ways. Some Christians act in prejudiced or racist ways, but others (particularly Rev and Louie) put Scripture to song to encourage the other players.
These questions are for teaching about high-performing teams.
These Scriptures speak to some of the themes of the movie.
o Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
o Hebrews 10:24-25
o Copy of the movie
o Equipment for showing the movie (TV, DVD player, LCD projector, Speakers, Screen…)
o Question Sheet (attached)
o Popcorn and drinks (optional)
o Print out copies of the question sheet for each individual or group.
o Set up everything for viewing the movie. (Be sure to test it all out to make sure that the movie plays well and that the sound can be heard by everyone.)
o Prepare snacks. (optional)
Watch the movie. Then on your own, with a mentor or with a group, answer the questions on the Question Sheet.
1. What were some of the challenges that the Titans faced as their coaches tried to make them into a team at the beginning of the movie?
2. What did the coaches do that was helpful in shaping the players into a team?
3. What did the coaches do that was harmful to their goal?
4. What did the players do that was harmful to teamwork?
5. What did Julius Campbell (the leader of the black students, played by Wood Harris) mean when he told Gerry Bertier (the leader of the white students, played by Ryan Hurst) that “attitude reflects leadership?”
6. How did this feedback impact their relationship and the team?
7. What was the turning point for the team? Why do you think so?
8. What were some characteristics of the Titans when they became a high-performing team?
9. What challenges did the team face after they became a high-performing team?
10. How did they respond to these?
11. What kinds of changes do individuals need to make in order to become part of a high-performing team?
12. What do you think is the most important lesson that you can take away from this movie?
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April 20, 2009 · 6:08 pm
This game helps participants understand different responses to conflict. (You can also use this as a game to illustrate the different strategies in negotiation.)
Children, youth, adults
• Beads (20 per person plus 40 per group – in other words, if you have six people in a group, you will need 160 beads – 20 per person and 40 to go in the middle). You can also use coins, rice, beans… anything that you have lots and lots of.
• Dice (one per group – I recommend fuzzy dice. They are more fun to play with.)
• Flipchart or whiteboard
• Copies of the “Debrief Questions” page at the end of this lesson
• (Optional) A prizes(s) for the winning team(s)
• Make copies of the “Debrief Questions” page at the end of this lesson (one copy per table group).
• Count out the beads, and put enough for the gate at each table.
• Put a die at each table.
• Write the following on a flipchart or whiteboard:
o 1 – Win-Win (Everyone gets 1 bead from center.)
o 2 – Win-Lose (Everyone gives you 1 bead.)
o 3 – Lose-Win (You give everyone 1 bead.)
o 4 – Lose-Lose (Everyone puts 1 bead in the center.)
o 5 – Compromise (You give 1 bead to the center and pick 2 other people to put one bead in the center.)
o 6 – You Choose (Choose your own conflict response, and do what it says.)
• Practice the script.
Use the following script (or modify to suit your needs):
• (Divide the participants into table groups of 4-6 people each.)
• “We’re going to play a game that will illustrate peoples’ different responses to conflict.”
• “Different people respond in different ways when they come into conflict.”
• “Many go for ‘Win-Lose.’ ‘I win; you lose.’ They want to win the conflict even if it means that the other person has to lose.”
• “Many others go for ‘Lose-Win.’ ‘I lose; you win.’ They just let the other person win, because they don’t like conflict or confrontation. It’s easier just to give up the fight.”
• “Some go for ‘Compromise.’ ‘We both lose some of what we wanted, but at least we get a resolution to the conflict.’ Neither party gets exactly what they wanted in ‘Compromise,’ but the conflict gets resolved or the task gets done. Sometimes that’s enough.”
• “Some even go for ‘Lose-Lose.’ ‘I lose; you lose.’ This one seems crazy, but people will often choose this response when they are upset that they can’t win. It’s like they are saying, ‘If I can’t have what I want, I’ll make sure no one gets what they want!’”
• “And a very few people go for ‘Win-Win.’ ‘I win; you win.’ I say very few people go for it, because it’s very difficult to do. It takes patience, creativity and a willingness to truly listen and understand to the other person before making a decision. However, this is usually the best response to conflict, because everyone gets what they want (or even something better).”
• “On your table, you have lots of beads.”
• “I would like for everyone at the table to count out 20 beads for himself or herself.” (Wait for everyone to count out his or her beads. There should be at least 40 left in the middle of the table.)
• “The game we are about to play is called, ‘Win-Lose,’ and your objective is to win.”
• “The person at the table who first collects 40 beads is the winner.”
• “You gain or lose beads by rolling the die (singular for dice) and doing one of six things listed on the flipchart / whiteboard.”
• “If you roll a one, you choose a Win-Win response to conflict, and everyone at the table benefits by getting a bead from the center.”
• “If you roll a two, you choose a Win-Lose response to conflict, and everyone gives you one of their beads.”
• “If you roll a three, you choose a Lose-Win response to conflict, and you give everyone at the table one bead.”
• “If you roll a four, you choose a Lose-Lose response to conflict, and everyone had to put a bead back into the center.”
• “If you roll a five, you choose a Compromise response to conflict, and you need to put a bead in the center. You will also pick two other people to put a bead in the center.”
• “If you roll a six, you get to pick your conflict response. You then have to do what the flipchart / whiteboard says for that conflict response. For example, if you choose ‘Win-Lose,’ then you should collect a bead from everyone at the table.”
• “To determine who goes first, you will each roll the die. The highest roll goes first. If you have a tie for the highest roll, have just those people continue to roll to determine who goes first.”
• “After the first person goes, the person on his/her left will go next, and play will continue clockwise around the table.”
• “Play continues until someone accumulates 40 beads. That person is the winner.”
• “Does anyone have any questions about how to play?” (Answer questions.)
• “Okay, then you can start rolling the die to see who goes first.” (If they finish the first round quickly and you have the time, let them play several rounds. Then, award a prize to the winners if you choose. Pass out the Debrief Questions sheet to each group, and allow them 10-15 minutes to talk about the questions. Then ask the large group for any general insights from the activity.”
o How does this game reflect real conflict situations?
o When people got to choose the conflict response they used, what did they usually choose? Why? What can you learn from this?
o What consequences are there for people who always use the following approaches to conflict?
o How do people generally feel about others who use these conflict responses on a regular basis?
o Why don’t more people approach conflict from a Win-Win perspective?
o What are the benefits of using a Win-Win approach?
o What could you do to increase the frequency with which you use Win-win?
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